Prioritize Holiday Activities

The holiday season can get hectic. When it's the fun crazy-busy holiday spirit that's great! When it's that stressful, "oh, my gosh, I'm never going to get everything done!" madness, it's time to look at what your wants are for the season. This is one time of year where time management and setting priorities is so vital to enjoying the season.

What is important for you & your family?

• What traditions are important for you.
  
• What would you like to add to your preparation & celebrations?

What activities can you discontinue?

• What activities do you find stressful?
  
• What activities are not enjoyable?
  
• What traditions have lost their meaning?

Who can help?

• Delegate – get family & friends involved.
  
• Work together – anything is more fun when done with a friend.
  
• Pay for services – hire a teen to wrap presents, or watch the kids, while you shop or bake.
  
• Trade services – you love to bake and your neighbor loves to decorate. Bake for her while she decorates for you.

Make a plan:

• List those activities you want to partake in.
  
• Schedule the activities; write them on your calendar. If you have more activities, than time, look for activities to eliminate or delegate or participate in certain activities every other year. Take care of yourself - allocate down time.

Yes, there are more questions than answers above. This is not about what someone else thinks should be important. This is about using your time in a way that is meaningful for you and your family. I encourage you to take the time to reflect on these questions, and then celebrate the holidays in a way that adds significance to your life. May you find peace and serenity in this holiday season!